One needs to be reasonable as to what time the buyer is messaging the seller. Not everyone stays up until midnite so keep that in mind as well as cell phones are not allowed in many work places when one is at work. If the buyer uses common sense as to when their messaging the seller then they might understand why the response time is not immediate.
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