I make them come to me. I have a small boutique in a business bldg. meet them in the foyer. You could use your bank
“at your convenience”. I never let them pick the place. Good luck, don’t give up because some illiterate jerks hurt your feelings, wasted your time. I had a real jerk email me I had sold him a fake Tiffany necklace and bracelet. I lit into him like all billy hell. He backed off quick!